tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-24351654384950907252024-03-05T05:18:09.990-07:00A Man Who Pole DancesA look at the art of pole dancing from the viewpoint of a male dancerBob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.comBlogger75125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-44133555005115795322014-09-14T20:17:00.000-06:002014-09-14T20:18:59.152-06:00In the Moment<div style="display: inline;">
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The reminders of "In the moment" are all around us.<br />
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Yesterday I was shooting pictures at the Denver Botanic Gardens. It was near sunset. There were only a few seconds when that unique sun angle was going to bounce those photons off the glass sculpture and put them on my eyeballs. That moment was never going to happen again in any other timeless time. I had to compose the shot, and push the button. All you have is your training and instincts.I wanted the camera to "see" what I saw, (or create another effect). But there are too many variables, and too many things to think about (depth of field, shutter speed, ISO etc).<br />
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So you don't think. You react. But you are imperfect, the camera is imperfect. You just do your best, and try to do better when the next "moment" comes along.<br />
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Dance is like that. You go or you don't. The older I get, the more I appreciate the moments, and I try to just live them. (AND practice, practice, practice) The only way to be prepared for the next "moment" is to make mistakes, and learn from them.<br />
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P.S. I know that it has been a long time since I last blogged. Last month I danced as an invited showcase performer at the North American Pole Dance Championship in Chicago, IL. A week later I danced in the first Northern California Pole Presentational in San Jose, CA. My last major pole dance performance of 2014 will be October 4th in St. Charles, IL. Midwest Pole Dance is hosting the first Midwest Pole Presentational. I also have a regular gig blogging monthly for Bad Kitty.<br />
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<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nd2wvppfLLY" target="_blank">NAPDC Sunday Showcase</a>
Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-91194518802753884022014-03-04T17:56:00.000-07:002014-03-04T17:56:50.469-07:00March Pole Dancing Bloggers Bloghop: The Great RevealWhat deep secret do I have to reveal today? Wow. If you know me in real life or on Facebook you know I'm out there. I'm not much for secrets. But I do have things I don't talk about. I'm a little uncomfortable discussing the inspirations for pole pas de deux or pole pas de deux for that matter.<br />
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Little secret #1<br />
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I have no male pole heroes that inspire my dance. I have nothing in common with the modern male pole dancer. I'm not young, ripped, bendy, or crazy into gymnastics/pole tricks. I'm old, stiff, at least fifteen pounds overweight and my aerial invert is a thing of disaster. The male dancers that inspire my movement are all ballet dancers. Tyler Angle (New York City Ballet), Brandon "Private" Freeman (Wonderbound), Baryshnikov, Peter Martins (NYCB), and Dmitry Trubchanov (Colorado Ballet).<br />
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I start with the music and then I dance. Pole pas de deux choreography is the hardest. In the last few years I have worked with three partners. When it came time to share inspiration with them I showed them all pieces of ballet pas de deux choreographed by Christopher Wheeldon, and Carla Korbes with Batkhurel Bold dancing to Edwaard Liang's <i>Fur Alina.</i> In every case they all gravitated to specific movements that were so simple, so direct, so emotional, and so gorgeous that all four of us in some way ended up playing with them over and over. It is also a little scary to note that in two cases we ended up with some of the same music. Matty and Shimmy mixed Damien Rice into a routine and my current partner loved it. She had no idea who Rice was, or that I had soloed 9 Crimes six months before.<br />
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There are common themes in my dance. I dance with partners and teachers that share them and inspire me with the things they bring to me.<br />
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Little secret #3<br />
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I wasn't finished with Max Richter's<i><b> This Bitter Earth/On The Nature of Daylight </b></i>as either a pas de deux or a solo piece until I walked off the stage at the 2013 Colorado Pole Championship.( I just watched it on YouTube. I should have quite earlier. *much laughter*)<br />
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<i>God creates, I do not create. I assemble and I steal everywhere to do it - from what I see, from what the dancers can do, from what others do. ~ George Balanchine</i><br />
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pole dance has been filled with joy, laughter, wonderful friendships, and
applause. I have also experienced rejection, injury, self-doubt, sexism, and
tears. Nothing in my male life experience prepared me for the look into my soul
that would come with swinging around a dance pole to “Clocks” by Coldplay. I have
always been an extremely sensitive person in some ways. I don’t know if that is
a result of brain chemistry, my Spanish-Italian ancestry, or some other cosmic
force that pulls on my heart. All I know for sure is that before I took my
first pole dance lesson I did NOT dance. My world revolved around my family, meteorology,
ice hockey, and annoying my boss.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">I really was
not body aware before I started pole dancing. After my first lesson I needed to
find something to wear that was as functional as the stuff that had a Mika or
Pole Fit logo on it. But the crotch had to be cut differently. When I went out
looking for something to dance in, all I could find was swimwear. The kind that
leaves the world no doubt about the gifts nature gave you. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">As I stood
before the swimwear rack at the sporting goods store, I knew I was in for a
whole lot of conflict. Men and women were going to judge me. The mere mention
of the word, “Speedo” would get me a bucket load of disgusted remarks from any
woman under sixty that I knew. Unless of course it’s Channing Tatum. As I
pulled a pair of boy short style Speedos up my legs I could hear the hockey
locker room voices, “Is that gay or what?”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">I honestly
don’t know how I got past that first time in the fitting room. As I looked in
the mirror I was thinking that women were going to see me climbing a dance pole
in this swimsuit. I could see my stomach hanging over the edge of the drawstring.
My fifty-two year old legs looked like they had been hit with a waffle iron,
and the tattoos only my wife had seen were on display. I found myself thinking
that ice hockey (all those hours in the weight rooms and skating) had given me
a decent ass and good upper body. Maybe the women would notice my arms and
chest and not see my gut. As I walked out of the store with my purchase I wasn’t
so sure that I was safe in the place women were safe.</span></div>
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in pole has progressed I have become acutely aware that some women really have
issues with “scantily clad men.” There is an ongoing thread on the Studio Veena
website about dress codes in pole studios. The majority of the women don’t want
to dance in studios that are body shaming. I agree with them. If you are going
to have issues with exposed body parts, why are you hanging out in pole dance
studios? </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">At the same time some of my best female pole friends are vocal about
men wearing dance belts under their dance wear. I started wearing one right
after I started taking ballet. Why? Because one day I was inverted and I
noticed that you could see the entire outline of guy parts in my shorts. I was
ashamed of my body. I wasn’t trying to expose it to anyone. It just happened.
Last year I was dancing in a studio where a gay guy was dancing. He was coming
out into the main studio floor from the bathroom where he had changed. He
announced that he was coming out and the unified response that came from the
women was, “You better not be wearing a thong.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">I’m pretty
sure that the response to a new thong or g-string in any pole studio I dance at
would be different for a woman. At the same time I know that a guy with a Magic
Mike body might also get a different response. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">How do I feel about that? The same way a woman
feels when she opens the pages of a fashion magazine. I don’t feel sexy or “pretty”.
I know I can never live up to the Photoshopped images. When I dance,
I feel exposed and vulnerable. When I show emotion in a performance it comes
naturally but only in the moment. When I look at the video of past shows I
rarely see something I like. I keep doing it because I love to dance. You have
to love it a lot to keep on dancing when you are a guy. Especially when you are
a guy over fifty.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">I try to
keep a sense of humor about my dance and keep it fun. There are women who enjoy
my company in the most intimate of pole classes. Just last month a Coed Art of
Sensual Movement class started at one of the studios where I dance. I love the
woman who teaches it. It is full blown erotic/stripper, complete with legwarmers,
seven inch platforms, and chairs. I can chair dance, throw the “Hello Boys”
shot and invert without stabbing myself. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Two weeks
ago I let the teacher tape one minute of me dancing to “Cola” by Lana Del Rey.
I posted the clip on Studio Veena. Can I tell you a secret? I don’t hear lyrics
very well in many pole studios with high ceilings. Too many Deep Purple concerts in
my younger years. It was only after I was posted my dance on Veena that I
looked up the lyrics to “Cola”. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">Go ahead. Laugh with me. Laugh at me. It is all good. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;">“People have
asked me why I chose to be a dancer. I did not choose. I was chosen to be a
dancer, and with that, you live all your life.” Martha Graham</span></div>
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As a Culture We Need Dance</div>
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As a Culture We Need Love</div>
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I'm a Male Pole Dancer</div>
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However, pole dancing is going to evolve. The sexy/artistic dancers cannot stop this evolution. I am not going to question the motives that some people use when they promote pole fitness any more than I am going to question the use of the word "Empowerment". I am simply going to dance my dances for those who appreciate my approach to pole.<br />
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I have a choice. I can work on choreography, learning new pole moves, listening to new music or I can waste my time trying to convince people that K.T. Coates is destroying an art form with the International Pole Sports Federation. The clearest statement of my commitment to the artistic side of pole dance can be found in my performances and the collaborations that I have had with my fellow dancers.<br />
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Last week I read a rather controversial article about pole dancing by Dr. Goal Auzeen Saedi, Ph.D in Psychology Today. I posted a quote from it on my Facebook page and took issue with the glaring bias in the article and her statement about rape culture. One of my friends replied, Refer to Annemarie Davies post about haters hating : "You are not the jackass whisperer."<br />
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Personally when this months blog hop topic was announced I though of a song by folk music artist John Gorka. I attended John's performance last January in Denver. He told the story behind his song, "Where the Bottles Break." He was living in the rough side of a Pennsylvania steel mill town. Big money was moving into that part of town, tearing down the biker bars and neighborhood stores. They were being replaced by corporate chain stores. In one line of the song John writes, "I just wanna make enough to buy this town and keep it rough."<br />
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I want to keep pole dance rough. I like my Scotch neat. Excessive gluteal exposure is ok with me. I have learned to dance wearing eight-inch platform heels because I wanted to feel what the other dancers feel when their heels hit the floor after a slow spin. A spin to a piece of music that expresses some emotion bubbling from deep inside themselves. A spin that says, Here I am. I am beautiful. I am sexy.<br />
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I'm not concerned about pole gymnastics becoming an Olympic sport. I'm not concerned about the mainstream or my dance getting a G-Rating. I'm just going to be a better dancer and artist tomorrow than I am today. If someone thinks that I am attractive either physically or intellectually because of my dance I'll take the compliment and run.<br />
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Where the Bottles Break</div>
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by John Gorka</div>
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I walk where the bottles break</div>
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And the blacktop still comes back for more</div>
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I walk where the bottles break</div>
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And the blacktop still comes back</div>
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I live where the neighbors yell</div>
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And their music comes up through the floor</div>
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I live where the neighbors yell</div>
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And their music wakes me up</div>
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Life beyond the playground fence</div>
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Is serious as basketball</div>
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Life beyond the playground fence</div>
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Is serious</div>
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Four blocks from the steel mill blasts</div>
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I paint my claim up on the wall</div>
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Four blocks from the steel mill blasts</div>
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I paint my claim</div>
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From my end of the southside drag</div>
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It's a common thought to call the cops</div>
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Further west it's been gentrified</div>
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They turned biker bars into flower shops</div>
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I kind of miss those Harley guys</div>
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Who rarely did a body harm</div>
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They mostly liked to drink and shout</div>
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And flash the pictures on their arms</div>
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It happens when the money come</div>
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The wild and poor get pushed aside</div>
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It happens when the money come</div>
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The poor get pushed</div>
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The buyers come from somewhere else</div>
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And raise the rent so you can't hide</div>
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The buyers come from out of state</div>
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And they raise the rent</div>
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Buy low sell high</div>
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You get rich and you still die</div>
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Money talks and people jump</div>
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Ask how high low-life Donald what's-his-name</div>
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And who cares</div>
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I don't wanna know what his girlfriend doesn't wear</div>
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It's a shame that the people at work</div>
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Wanna hear about this kind of jerk</div>
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These people aren't saints</div>
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No people just are</div>
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They wanna feel like they count</div>
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They wanna ride in their own car</div>
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People aren't saints</div>
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No people just are</div>
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They wanna feel like they count</div>
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They wanna ride in their own car</div>
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I just wanna make enough</div>
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To buy this town and keep it rough</div>
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I just wanna make enough</div>
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To buy this town</div>
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Buy low sell high</div>
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You get rich and you still die</div>
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Money talks and people jump</div>
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Ask how high low-life Donald what's-his-name</div>
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I walk where the bottles break</div>
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And the blacktop still comes back for more</div>
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I walk where the bottles break</div>
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And the blacktop still comes back</div>
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I live where the neighbors yell</div>
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And their music comes up through the floor</div>
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I live where the neighbors yell</div>
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And their music wakes me up</div>
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Life beyond the playground fence</div>
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Is serious as basketball</div>
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Is serious</div>
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Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-6624662027670331812013-08-17T16:53:00.001-06:002013-08-17T19:19:43.780-06:00August Bloghop: Social Media and Pole DanceThis months topic is social media and pole dance. I've decided to look at two negative instances where social media has restricted or complicated my social interactions as a pole dancer.<br />
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Sharing art. YouTube. If it were not for YouTube I would have probably never spent a dime on a home pole or pole dance. When I became intrigued with the idea of learning how to pole dance the first videos I found were on YouTube. Watching Karol Helms and her basic moves videos inspired me. I watched, attempted, and learned. I spent hours watching pole dance on YouTube. However, when I became brave enough to video my own dances and upload them I came face to face with the music copyright demon.<br />
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My first upload was a dance I performed to the Melissa Etheridge song, Dance Without Sleeping. The audio was muted within a few minutes after the upload. BMI music copyright violation. I just searched YouTube and the only version of the song I could find uploaded was the official version. My stance on the issue is that if I took Melissa's music, put my dance on it and used it to sell my pole studio I could see a lot of people in the music industry taking issue with me. In this instance I am not adding value. I'm using Melissa's art to fatten my wallet. However, if I am not asking for a dime and dancing on the street to Melissa's music where is the harm or theft? Could it be that by my choice of dance music that I am encouraging people to go to iTunes and buy her music?<br />
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In my scientific field we take advantage of numerous example of Open Source computing resources. These are tools that enable scientist to carry out their work without paying licensing fees for proprietary computing programs and operating systems. Linux, GRASS GIS, R Statistical Analysis, and the GNU Fortran compiler are stunning examples of how freely exchanged source code and programs benefit everyone.<br />
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Enough said. I rarely post to YouTube. I have been required to post my competition entries to YouTube and I do it grudgingly. I'm not in dance for the money and I know the difference between plagiarism and being inspired by the art of others.<br />
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My next issue is the gnawing feeling I get in my gut when I refer to a particular dance studio in my blog or on Facebook. I am homeless when it comes to a dance studio. There aren't many guys in pole dance and after nearly five years at a single studio I knew that I wanted to share my dance in any studio that would let me dance there and with any group that wanted me with them. I have been invited to dance at nearly all of the Denver area pole dance studios and I have felt welcome. Unfortunately, there is the business side of pole and each studio has to be cognizant of the bottom line. Art doesn't keep the lights on and the water running.<br />
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I used to share where I was pole dancing on Facebook. I no longer do that. I used to share linked images of the studios where I danced here on this blog. Now I only link to them for those who are interested in learning more. I hesitate to mention studios in my blog. I just don't want to be in the middle of the money and politics. There isn't a studio owner here in Denver-Boulder-Longmont area that has ever treated me badly. I would do anything anyone of them asked of me so long as it did not harm another studio. Social media has the ability to upset a lot of people in a short amount of time. The more media exposure I get, the more I have to be on the lookout for land mines.<br />
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I'm open source and not for sale. I love sharing my ideas and art. It's free. Scientists are lousy businessmen. We have to share to advance.<br />
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I suffered a injury to my forearm in late February and was not able to grab a dance pole with my right hand until May. The stress was unbelievable. The deadline for the online entries for Midwest was looming in mid June and all I had was my music. There isn't much you can do in a situation like that. All you can do is sit tight and listen to your body. I had torn some tendons and muscle. If you can pick up a coffee cup and drink you might be out of the woods in a couple of months. I was told that if I kept on dancing I could end up being out until November.<br />
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The clock was running out by the time I started final choreography on my Midwest submission. As you know from my earlier blog post I was able to run the dance from beginning to end for the first time on the Dickens Opera House stage in May. I gave the video of that dance to two of my most trusted friends. Estee Zakar and Sarah Tallman.<br />
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All you pole dancers know Estee. Sarah is another one of Denver's dance treasures. Sarah is a professional dancer, and choreographer. She dances with the Wonderbound Dance Company (formerly Ballet Nouveau Colorado). She has also choreographed a number of ballets for the company. I met Sarah for the first time at my ballet school where the professional company used to rehearse. A lot of the floor work for my Midwest piece was based in classical ballet and if there was anyone in Denver that could help me with that it would be Sarah. Sarah graciously agreed to help me and we scheduled studio time on a warm June afternoon.<br />
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It was an amazing experience working with Sarah. She almost instantly memorized my music. I had been stumbling over the count for days. She looked into my musically challenged brain and just told me to count eights. And then she shared some of the secrets of her stage presence and what she thought about my Dickens dance. It was on the marley with Sarah that the arabesque's and pas de bourees took shape. In the pole studio with Estee we polished the final pole passes. The video submission rules for Midwest gave me three minutes to tell my story. I painfully cut my music and steps to fit the the time limit.<br />
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On the twenty-first of June I walked into Denver's Tease Pole Dance studio with Estee and we taped. I made a first pass and it was usable but I knew there was more. On the second attempt I was in the hardest pole move of my routine. The "Meathook" jade. Thirty seconds from home I had the first major fall of my pole dance career. On the way down I hit my ulnar nerve "funnybone" on the base of the pole. My arm went numb and I sat on the floor with one thought in mind, "Fuck." Estee was there with understanding and support. She said that a lot of her women were falling and that was just part of the competition. I missed pickup ice hockey later that night. I would be going back into the studio the next day and I doubt that I could have held a hockey stick in my right hand anyway. Estee and I taped Thursday night and I submitted my video a day before the deadline. My arm looked like it had been hit with a puck moving 90 mph.<br />
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I received an email from Mary Ellyn and Midwest Pole Dance July 2. "We are sorry to inform you that you did not qualify..." And so the soul searching began. Three days later in Estee's home studio I started picking up the pieces. I knew what I was up against going into the competition. I also faced another decision. Was I going to enter the Colorado Pole Championship? I did not have much time to think about it and that story will be another blog post. I danced and polished my routine. If I decided to enter Colorado I didn't have time to choreograph a new dance.<br />
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Lazy Saturday July 6. I blew off my morning ballet class and played on Facebook. While I was laughing outside and still stinging inside, I got a Facebook message. "Would I be interesting in dancing in one of the Midwest Showcases?" It is amazing how fast you can go from the depths of hell to the top of a mountain.<br />
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Yes! Hell Yes! Sunday afternoon August 25th. The road to Chicago ends.<br />
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P.S. I made the final round of the Colorado Pole Championship Masters (Over 40) Division. <br />
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<br />Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-71490412807973708122013-05-28T10:08:00.000-06:002013-05-28T10:08:28.912-06:00To Become: A Fearful Dance<br />
My blogging has been pretty minimal the last couple of months. I didn't want to share the
whiny details of what it was like to be an injured dancer. I tore some
stuff up in my right forearm doing a split grip move on February 21.
Nothing like the impending June 15 deadline for Midwest and only being
able to sit around and watch YouTube. One of the things that made it a
little easier to bear was Estee Zakar's Asia Tour. She was gone for most
of the rehab.<br />
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I followed the hard to follow orders from my physical therapist and
Chinese medicine specialist. I did not touch a pole from March 9th till
May 12. Estee and I danced for the first time on May 12 and we had two
lessons to get ready for my performance at the Vertical Fusion Cirque de
Radiance Showcase at the Dickens Opera House in Longmont, Colorado.<br />
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In fact I came to Estee for our first lesson since her return with the
news that I had just had therapy on my arm and the advice was to wait. I
had texted the gang at Vertical Fusion Pole and Fitness Studio and
canceled my performance. Estee had other ideas. She told me she wanted
me in front of a big audience and that the rigging and stage setup were
perfect for the different routines we were preparing. We would keep the
weight off the arm and choreograph around it.<br />
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I texted the studio back with the short message, "Change of heart. I
will see you tomorrow night at dress". Monday night I was doing my
routine for the very first time in dress. Estee and I met one more time
and we worked. Mostly marking it because my arm and body were killing
me. I went from sitting around being depressed for two months, to full
tilt and my skin, core, and upper body were very unhappy.<br />
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On Friday night I walked into the Dickens and had a brief shortness of
breath. There was this big stage, lots of seats and riggers putting up
the trusses for the poles. After the poles went up I had about five
minutes to smear some Dry Hands on and test the spin and static poles.
Some of the other dancers were eating burgers and Mexican food. Talk
about hard core. The moment was over before it ever started.<br />
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Mostly I remember the hot little room where the performers make their
last minute peace with the Gods of dance, the steep narrow back stairway
to the stage and the walking out after introduction. I will never
forget those lights. I knew the audience was there but I couldn't see
them. There were two guys giggling in front and I remember thinking,
"Get used to it. Your are in fact a guy and at least six gorgeous women
have come before you."<br />
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The music started and those moments that dancers live for came to life.
I wanted to leave it all on that stage. I didn't want to save anything.
I danced the most fearful piece of my life. Music that I thought my
body could never fill and a story that tears me up inside.<br />
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<br />Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-16611490291847089172013-05-15T16:27:00.000-06:002013-05-15T21:17:02.525-06:00May Pole Dance BloghopThis month all the Facebook pole dancing bloggers are answering the same set of questions. Here are my answers, Enjoy.<br />
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<b>How long have you been pole dancing?</b><br />
Five years. Seems shorter than that.<br />
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<b>What’s your favorite song to pole dance to?</b><br />
My all time favorite is Any Other Name by Thomas Neuman from the American Beauty movie soundtrack<br />
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<b>What’s your favorite pole dance move?</b><br />
Extended Butterfly. It took me forever to get it and it feels so powerful.<br />
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<b>What pole move is your nemesis?</b><br />
I would have to say Superman from an invert. I have smashed my guy parts so many times doing that one. Now it is out of Jasmine or nothing.<br />
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<b>If you have to classify your dance style, what would it be?</b> Ballet. My floorwork and pole to pole transitions are all based on contemporary ballet.<br />
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<b>What inspires your movement? Why do you dance?</b><br />
Music inspires my movement. It's all about the music. I'm a research scientist in real life. Dance takes me beyond logic into a world of pure feeling. I guess the only way to find out why I dance is to watch me because I can't tell you in words.<br />
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<b>Do you study/participate in any other kinds of dancing or other kinds of training?</b><br />
I'm a ballet dancer. During the summer months I play pickup ice hockey. I used to play in adult leagues but I quit a few years ago. Body couldn't keep up with the 30 year olds. The mind is willing but ice hockey is a brutal contact sport. <br />
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<b>How often do you train, dance or attend class per week?</b><br />
During the winter I take two ballet classes, at least one pole class, and one private lesson with superstar Estee Zakar every week. From May to August I play ice hockey on Wednesday nights instead of ballet class.<br />
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<b>Any tips for training?</b><br />
Quit when you are tired. There comes a point when fatigue takes over and the harder you try the worse it is going to get. Know when to quit and leave it for another day.<br />
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<b>Do you train on both sides when you pole? Why or why not?</b><br />
Only when forced by teachers. I'm lazy.<br />
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<b>If you’re not a full time poler, how do you balance work and pole? Friends and pole? Life and Pole?</b><br />
Not well. My wife would like to kill me most of the time. I'm slow on house chores, and my boss knows not to expect me to stay late on a ballet or pole class evening.<br />
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<b>Is pole dancing, which happens to be a hobby for most, worth the investment?</b><br />
I'm going to quote Merce Cunningham. He says it better than I could ever say it, "You have to love dancing to stick to it. It gives you nothing back, no manuscripts to store away, no paintings to show on walls and maybe hang in museums, no poems to be printed and sold, nothing but that single fleeting moment when you feel alive."<br />
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<b>Why did you start a pole dance blog?</b><br />
When I started pole dancing I was the only guy in the Denver area pole dancing outside of gay clubs. One studio in the area would take me and initially I only took private lessons. I wanted to document my journey.<br />
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<b>What does your pole dance blog mainly focus on?</b><br />
It's entirely about dance. It's apolitical, and very personal. I couldn't tell you the first thing about the technical aspects of pole. I'm qualified to coach ice hockey and I serve as a senior scientist mentor to summer student interns at my work. Honestly, I don't want the responsibility for teaching an art. To me pole is art. I'm a newborn at art.<br />
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<b>What’s your favorite post on your pole dance blog?</b><br />
<a href="http://manwhopoledances.blogspot.com/2013/02/love.html" target="_blank">Love</a><br />
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<b>What’s your favorite non-pole blog?</b><br />
<a href="http://cadiiitalk.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Chuck's Chatter</a>. A fellow scientist, former mentor, and good friend. He takes on the political, intellectual, and scientific stuff that my blog avoids.<br />
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<b>What is your favorite dance studio? (If you teach or own a studio, please list one other than where you teach.)</b><br />
This the hardest question that I could ever be asked to answer. I have danced at many of the Denver, Boulder, and Longmont, Colorado studios. Every one of the owners or teachers that I worked with gave me and some still give me something very special and I am grateful that they have opened their hearts and studios to me. My strongest bond is with Estee Zakar. I wouldn't be half the dancer I am without her. <br />
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<b>If you teach, why did you start teaching, and how did it change your practice? If you don’t teach, do you think you’d ever want to teach? Why or why not? </b><br />
Right now I am not technically competent to teach. Maybe someday. <br />
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<b>Heels or No Heels? Also any good recommendations for heels?</b><br />
Oh my God. I'm fresh off a dare from Sasha Viers at The Boulder Spirals Dance Studio. Without going into details I accepted the challenge and I can dance in 8" Pleaser Platform "sexy" shoes. It's nothing I would ever do in public performance. My recommendation to guy dancers and heels: If you are going to try a pair on at the studio assume your picture is going to end up on Facebook. A lot of the women are going to think it is the sexiest thing you ever did. My current Facebook cover picture is my first time in heels. On the other hand my wife thinks I'm crazy. She looked at my new black sexy Pleasers and said, "My husband has sexier shoes than I do???" Then she gave me the "look". All men know it when they see it.<br />
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<b>What are your favorite pole clothes?</b><br />
I'm a fifty-six year old guy. I've lost a little hair, some of it is gray, and I'm built like a hockey player. (Huge ass) I wear a lot when I don't need skin or I'm not performing. When I perform I wear a basic black boy short racing swim trunks. I don't like what I see in the mirror. I just try not to look.<br />
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<b>What’s your favorite pole? Size? Material? Height? Static? Spin?</b><br />
45 mm X-Pole, chrome, 14', and I love spin pole. Ballet and spin pole are a marriage made in heaven.<br />
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<b>If you have ever performed, how do you usually prepare your performance?</b><br />
Yes I have. My seventh performance will be in the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/events/155543527947261/" target="_blank">Vertical Fusion Cirque de Radiance Showcase in Longmont, Colorado.</a> How do I prepare? I try not to puke. Seriously, I remind myself to dance from the heart and to express rather than impress. I love it when someone comes up to me before I dance and knows that I understand, "Merde!" All ballet dancers understand, "Merde!"<br />
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<b>What’s something you love to do or experience aside from pole dancing?</b><br />
I love being married to my wife. She is on a trip right now and I really miss her. Our 21st wedding anniversary is coming up and she is my soulmate. It takes a very special woman to let her husband pole dance.<br />
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<b>How has pole dancing affected your life?</b><br />
It has taught me the value of time. Balanchine said it best, "Why are you stingy with yourselves? Why are you holding back? What are you saving for—for another time? There are no other times. There is only now. Right now.”<br />
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<b>Looking back at your life, are you surprised that you’re a pole dancer? Like were you a nun five years ago and now you’re a pole teacher? Or does pole dancing seem like a natural fit into the progression of your life?</b><br />
Nothing surprises me anymore. I'm at the age in my life when I don't care what other people think. I don't want to die with regrets.<br />
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<b>What’s one pole stereotype that you wish would go away?</b><br />
Men who dance are gay. Homophobia in general sucks. It's ignorant and it goes way beyond pole. We are artists and athletes. <br />
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<b>Best reaction when you told someone that you are a pole dancer?</b><br />
That is so cool!<br />
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<b>Also, since its May… does your Mother [or any maternal person in your life] know that you pole dance and what does she think?</b><br />
She knows. I accidentally outed myself. That day is in my blog. She thinks I never grew up. She's right.<br />
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<b>What’s your pole fantasy or dream?</b><br />
I lived it. I wanted to do a full blown ballet style pas de deux with a woman who could do both ballet and pole in a public performance.<br />
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<b>Finish this sentence. Pole dancing is….</b><br />
Just another step in my wandering.
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<!-- start LinkyTools script --><script src="http://www.linkytools.com/basic_linky_include.aspx?id=194969" type="text/javascript"></script><!-- end LinkyTools script -->Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-20676630935318295302013-04-15T18:16:00.000-06:002013-04-15T22:32:50.697-06:00Competition vs Artistic Expression or I Already Wrote This Chapter of My Life I have always loved playing ice hockey. I like the spirit, the testosterone, and winning. My first wife and I divorced when I was in my early thirties. It was then that I returned to the sport of my youth and rediscovered my love of the game. From the time I was thirty-three until my last game in my early fifties I played beer league hockey. Sometimes the teams I played on took the ice at 11:30 PM on weekdays. It wasn't until I left the competitive divisions and moved to Over 40 Recreational that I had Sunday afternoon game times.<br />
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I've severely sprained my MCL's three times, suffered groin muscle tears that have put me on crutches, and have endured arthroscopic surgery on my right ankle and left knee. I willingly paid the price for those wonderful moments when the puck went into the net.<br />
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I was forty-six when I finally decided that I was really over the beatings I was taking at the hands of the thirty-five year old guys, let alone the guys who just turned eighteen. I stayed long enough to play on a team with one of those eighteen year old boys. My son Chris. I enjoyed two seasons of getting the puck to the young guns.<br />
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I played another four years of rec hockey after those two years but decided to quit when the league management brought in the thirty-five year old guys and tried to pass it off on the older guys unsuspectingly. I wrote about my last game a few posts back. I knew what I was up against and I knew that I just didn't have the body and emotion to keep playing in that situation. I was sad the day I took off my jersey the last time. I didn't leave because I couldn't play anymore. The most memorable moment of my last game was scoring a goal from the blueline on a hard wrist shot. Defensemen don't score a lot of goals. Knowing I still had the power to shoot the puck that hard at fifty-one was sweet. I left because I was tired of the "figuring out how to rig the game."<br />
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It was time to write a new chapter in my life. Now I play pickup hockey with a bunch of old friends in the summer months when the rinks are quiet and the serious hockey players are playing golf. We are all old and we have fun together. I can walk in the mornings after I play with my friends without difficulty.<br />
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The quiet chapter in my life is about dancing. I love dancing. I love the art. I have always been inspired by the competitive dancers but had no illusions about entering a competition myself. I love performing and have danced for an audience a number of times. I have never danced for judges. As you know I will be videotaping an online submission for the Midwest Pole Dancing Competition and Convention that will be held this summer in Chicago. There are two reasons for me entering this competition.<br />
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The first and my only real strong reason for entering is that my cherished teacher, Estee Zakar, suggested that I compete after she saw me dance for the first time. She tells me that there is something very special about the way I dance and that other guys need to see my dance. My second reason for entering is a chance to go to a major convention where the who's who of the pole dance world have come together.<br />
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Now to the compromise part. A discussion started today on the Colorado Pole Championship Facebook page. The topic: Will there be a Master's (OLD) Category and what will be the competitor minimum age. The following was posted:<i> </i><br />
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<i>Those that are requesting over 40 keep in mind even at 35-40 you are competing against 18 year olds who may have been pole dancing for years - I attended a comp that had a 35 and over group and actually i felt it kept it very competitive still and made the division feel very strong.</i><br />
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Wow. Brings back some real bad memories on my part. What is a statement like this supposed to mean? I started playing ice hockey at thirteen. Mentally I know where to be on the ice at the right time. This level of experience made it possible for me to play with guys twenty years younger than myself. But, it never allowed me to go one on one with an eighteen year old and beat him to the puck if he wanted it. The legs feed the wolf. I don't have the legs anymore. Now add that to three minute music time limits, compulsory moves, and worrying about what the judges are going to think. I feel myself starting to disconnect. Like the time I put my stick under the "ringer" guy's legs and tripped him on his way to the puck. I was blind pissed off that the league let him play with the gray hairs. The two minute minor penalty I was assessed was worth it.<br />
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I'm suddenly feeling like the referee has blown the whistle and raised his arm. He is going to drop the puck in a few seconds, and the shit is going to come down. As each day counts down to June 15 (The date online entries are due to the Midwest Judges) the more stress I feel. My dance comes from deep inside and I dance because I love expressing myself. I love dancing for people and I have no problem with judgement. I don't like Lady Gaga's music. I like Neil Young's music. Neil and Stefani know the art rules up front. No one has to like your art. But on a scale of 1-10 can they tell you why? Would the reasons they give stand up to the kind of objectivity and logic used in a Riemannian Geometry proof?<br />
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It's all subjective. I like music that lives for more than three minutes. I like having more stage area than fifteen square feet, and I really have a problem with the reverse cannonball/double upside down/half-pike/jade iguana move. I really want to share my dance. But if it means compromise, and worrying about the kinds of nonsense political maneuvering that goes on in youth ice hockey league board meetings and high school hockey player recruiting I have a back up plan.<br />
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I'll just rent my favorite pole studio for an hour with my friends and jam. I might invite my hockey friends. Hockey players are as good at jello shots and beer as any pole dancer I know.<br />
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<!-- start LinkyTools script --><script src="http://www.linkytools.com/basic_linky_include.aspx?id=191197" type="text/javascript"></script><!-- end LinkyTools script -->Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-60313760003111133372013-03-21T19:06:00.000-06:002013-03-21T19:06:46.869-06:00No Offense Intended, I'm Going for Sexy/Artsy<br />
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<span style="background-color: black; color: white;"><span style="font-family: lucida grande, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17px;">I maybe a guy, but I feel the need for emotion and expression. I feel art in movement. I'm getting away from over fifty years of, "Boys don't cry." Empowerment is becoming an overused buzzword in pole. </span></span><span style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 17px;">But dancing expressively from deep inside is my revolt, and my rejection of the conventional male box where I used to live. If you would like to call that "empowerment" I'm ok with it. There is a power </span><span style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 17px;">and sexy in artistic dance. </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: black; color: white;"><span style="font-family: lucida grande, tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 17px;">This past January I took a series of pole classes that were designed for men. It was called Acro Pole and most of the men in the class were married to women who also pole danced in the studio or knew </span></span><span style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 17px;">female pole dancers from their involvement in parkour. We worked on pole tricks. The guys were great. The atmosphere was fun, and hilarious at times. Contrary to popular myths propagated by "Women Only" </span><span style="font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 17px;">pole studio owners it didn't turn into a penis comparing contest. I enjoyed the class and really respect the courage of the studio owner.</span></span></div>
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Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-84639656008524732232013-03-21T18:01:00.000-06:002013-03-21T19:45:28.795-06:00Shaping the Choreography (The Jersey)<br />
I hate that I can never relate this story to anyone, not even Estee without tearing up a lot. This is from a NY Times article about the night Wayne Gretzky retired:<br />
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My day came three years ago. I had to take my jersey off for the last time. I'm no Gretzky but I loved every minute of every game and I just couldn't play hockey with the thirty-year old guys at the level I wanted to anymore. The dance Estee and I are choreographing for my Midwest Pole Dancing Competition entry is about that day. I'm even dreaming about dancing lately.<br />
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<br />Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-79170404200477255442013-03-14T13:38:00.001-06:002013-03-17T15:38:29.479-06:00My Dance Bag (March Bloghop)My dance bag is a small disorganized disaster area. It used to be worse. I used to carry my ballet stuff in the same bag with my pole stuff. After "losing" my phone and keys for the 200th time I split the bags. One for pole and one for ballet. In an hour or so I'm heading off to a private lesson with Estee Zakar and my bag is ready to go. Welcome to Pandora's Box:<br />
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<li>Duct tape. Doctors orders. I am not to dance barefoot on the ball of my left foot. It took three years of freezing, a chemotherapy drug and permanent scarring to get rid of a plantar wart. Besides. Duct tape fixes everything.</li>
<li>Towels. One for the pole and one for me. </li>
<li>iPod. 180 Gig. I don't go to any dance lesson without it. If you hear that burning bags of cat poop were found at Apple headquarters it is because they finally discontinued the 180. My entire music library is on mine including some pole music playlists that go back to 2007.</li>
<li>Water bottle. I prefer Rockstar Zero carb but my doc tells me water is better for my kidneys.</li>
<li>Extra booty shorts and dance belts. I always wear a dance belt under my pole shorts. It keeps people focused on my pole work. Most of the stuff men wear for pole dance doesn't leave a lot to the imagination. When you are in your mid 50's this is NOT a good thing.</li>
<li>White Flower. Estee swears by the stuff. I'm hurting. I'm trying it.</li>
<li>Arnica. Arnica is in the same category as duct tape. Indispensable. </li>
<li>Dew Point, Dry-Hands, iTac2. I like Dry-Hands the best. But on some poles on some days the other stuff works. I like Dew Point a lot. Especially on 45 mm poles. Dew Point is also a great way to get glued to the bed sheets without all night monkey sex.</li>
<li>Contact lens solution, extra case, extra lenses, and re-wetting drops. </li>
<li>Hand Sanitizer. We all know that <b>EVERTHING</b> rubs on those poles. Ballet barres are also metal Petri dishes.</li>
<li>Deodorant. Self explanatory</li>
<li>Spare hearing aid batteries. Embarrassing. I have a lot of hearing loss. Too many Deep Purple concerts and exposure to the 2.0 kilohertz sound pulses that are used extensively in meteorological research. I have an especially hard time hearing female voices. Their already soft voices make the consonants hard to hear. So if the music is loud, you are female, and I look bewildered, it is because I can't hear a word you are saying. </li>
<li>Double sided tape. Things slip. After one inversion the drawstrings on my booty shorts are always hanging out. I also assume that some people really do not want to see my below the belly button ink.</li>
<li>One pair of Pleaser Taboo 7 1/2" Sexy Black Stripper shoes. (Don't ask. Future blog post) ;)</li>
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Pole preference. I learned on 50 mm brass Platinum Stages poles. I really liked working on brass. I visited another studio in Denver and they had 50 mm PS stainless. I spent half of my time trying to stay up on the damned thing. I learned to hate the 50 mm PS stainless. Back in December I had a chance to work on 45 mm PS stainless. No problem. I think it has more to do with the diameter than the material. I don't mind working on 45 mm PS stainless at all. I have two PS brass poles at home (45 mm and 50 mm). I like them but when I started working with Estee it was 45 mm X-Pole. I have one at home too and I'm not looking back.<br />
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I do have to say one thing about X-Pole and Platinum Stages. Everyone seems to have a horror story about their quality control or customer service. Estee got my X-Pole for me and it was perfect out of the box. I bought two poles from PS. The first one was cut wrong and it was my fault because I forgot to click the correct ceiling length on the web page. They made it good overnight. The second was perfect from the get go.<br />
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Dress rehearsal was February 8. Just before I danced I was sitting in the chairs at the back of the studio all by myself. I was alone with my usual apprehension and demons. The husband of the studio owner was getting ready to video the rehearsal. He walked over and sat down. After we exchanged a few pleasantries he looked and me and asked, "How do you do this? I can't imagine being you." I really couldn't explain it except to say that this was my fifth and it never seems to get any easier. I did mention that I thought my performing in front of a mixed crowd with only women was sending an important message to men about pole dance and men dancing in general.<br />
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Saturday night while I was sitting with the other women before showtime I searched for my wife in the crowd. My thoughts turned to her. It takes something special to support your husband when he goes off four times a week to dance in classes where all the other members are women. Some people have said that I must be very confident about my masculinity. My confidence? What about my wife? Talk about a strong woman. We talk. We talk a lot about the issues she faces since I started dancing. My wife is my age. She knows I am surrounded by women wearing the best and sexiest polewear. She knows that a lot of those women are younger than our twenty-seven year old "baby" daughter. She knows what 7" platforms add to any woman's sexual allure. She knows that a bond forms with people who share common interests and challenges. She knows I love the dance.<br />
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It's has been almost four years since I left for my first pole dance lesson and she still lets me go without guilt or strings attached. She lets go with a kiss, and confidence that she is and always will be my soulmate.<br />
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Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-60514139884477074472013-01-18T00:25:00.000-07:002013-01-18T10:02:24.978-07:00Things to Remember: A Year Without GoalsI missed the January pole dancers bloghop. The subject matter was basically what we wanted to get out of the coming year. I never made it to the deadline. I kept thinking about how my year was going to revolve around the Great Midwest Pole Dance Competition and Convention. The word "competition" was causing brain lock. It's not like I hate competing or I run away from it. I remember vividly my last season playing regular winter season ice hockey.<br />
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My team had won back to back league championships. I was fifty-one years old. For three months after I skated off the ice with the trophy I would not commit to another season. Why? The answer: I am utterly competitive. I was still playing like it mattered. Beer league hockey doesn't matter. It's just a bunch of guys having fun. But I still wanted to be the best captain and defensemen on the ice. If I could not find the emotion and heart to be that person, I was just going to quit playing and enjoy my Sunday afternoons at home.<br />
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Two months before I needed to register our team for another season I knew I wasn't ready to quit but that I was going to have to do more to play the coming season than ever before. Age was taking away my balance, skating speed, and my shot. When I made up my mind that I was going to play I also told myself that this was the end. Win or lose, this was going to be my last season of ice hockey. After that it was endless. I was in the gym three days a week from the end of July to October 1. I beat the living crap out of myself in the gym. I worked with one goal in mind. Win. Win that one last meaningless trophy.<br />
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When the season started I was emotionally and physically ready. All season long my team was a machine and we could not have had a better season. The storybook ending came on Easter Sunday 2009. I skated up to the league director, shook his hand and held up the last championship trophy of my hockey life. Three years in a row.<br />
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Now the difference between going to Midwest and Beer League ice hockey is huge. On the ice I was a predator. I have had a hockey stick in my hand on and off since I was thirteen. I pretty much skate like I walk, maybe better. In pole I'm technically horrible. I'm a newbie. Three years of pole compared to thirty-nine on skates? I am so far out of my league it's nuts. To succeed in Chicago I have to have a new plan. This can't be brute force like my last hockey season.<br />
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<li>I need to be humble and honest with myself.</li>
<li>I need to dance because I love dancing.</li>
<li>I need to express not impress.</li>
<li>I must always remember that the body never lies. My dance has to come from the heart because that is my strength. Real people can smell pretentious from a distance.</li>
<li>I need to remember that what I do is art. You can't measure it, time it, or count it.</li>
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So I have no goals. All I have is list of things to remember.Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-6388478581661105382012-12-21T07:44:00.000-07:002012-12-21T07:44:53.956-07:00The First Christmas Present of 2012Dance can be dramatic. The world around dancers can be filled with human drama that is in no way related to what we do in front of an audience. The relationships you develop with your fellow dancers can be fragile. From my own experience I can say that where I am at emotionally comes out in my dance. I express my joys and sorrows in movement.<br />
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The best partners can have disagreements, and intentionally or unintentionally hurt each other. Communication is not always easy. Sometimes it just isn't possible to figure out how to start the dialog until someone reaches out.<br />
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I hugged my old dance partner last night and we talked for the first time in four months. I'm glad I kept our showcase pictures up in my practice room. It didn't seem right to take them down. Dance lives and dies in the moment. But the steps never leave your heart.<br />
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I can't think of a better way to start the Christmas weekend.<br />
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<br />Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-28350047327920382442012-12-06T11:44:00.000-07:002012-12-08T23:27:47.726-07:00The Year in Review 2012 (Bloghop)This month the Facebook pole dancing bloggers are looking back on the highlights of their year. This post won't be confined to pole dance. It is impossible for me to untangle my experiences as a ballet dancer from pole dance. I am a dancer.<br />
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The top moment of my year was the spring showcase rehearsal at my former pole studio. I finally got a chance to live out a moment on stage that had been in my dreams since I made my first plie. I looked up at the end of the <i>"This Bitter Earth</i>" pole dance pas de deux with my partner and saw tears in peoples eyes. We didn't know what people were going to think about our dance and when we saw their eyes we knew that something magic had happened. My inspiration for bringing the pas de deux from Wheeldon's<span class="st"> “<i>Five Movements</i>, <i>Three Repeats</i>,”</span> to pole dance came from watching a rehearsal video of Wendy Whelen and Tyler Angle posted on YouTube.<br />
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The next special moments of the year came from watching Ballet Nouveau Colorado dancers Sarah Tallman, Brandon Freeman, Julie King, and Damian Patterson perform pas from the Garrett Ammon ballet "Love in the Digital Age". They made me cry. Twice. My lines come from the dancers and teachers at BNC. I'm blessed.<br />
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My wife and I attended opening night of the Vail International Dance Festival 2012. Imagine walking in and seeing NYCB principle dancer Tiler Peck doing her warm up barre on stage! I came for<i> </i>Dove's<i> Red Angels</i> and walked away stunned by the way Tiler and Amar Ramasar performed the final pas from the Robbins ballet <cite><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9xqenMnqfAg" target="_blank">In the Night </a></cite> .<br />
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In August I pole danced with props for the first time. It was a very different experience. It was also my first experiment with the music of Italian composer Ludivico Einaudi. His music moves me deep inside. Sometimes I hear music and I can see myself in some kind of movement. I could see myself playing ice hockey and I told the story of what it means to be an aging hockey player and a dancer. It was my last dance at my former studio.<br />
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Sometimes heartbreaking things happen and from the pain and ashes you become stronger as your comfortable little world collapses around you. The change forged a tighter bond with my teacher, the amazing pole dancer Estee Zakar. I actually freestyle danced for Estee last month after working with her for over a year. Her enthusiasm for my dance style and encouragement has helped change my way of thinking about performing. I am looking forward to the Great Midwest Pole Dance Competition coming next summer in Chicago. I can think of no one better qualified to help me get ready for the trip.<br />
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In October I was invited by Sasha Viers to dance in a Halloween pole jam at her Boulder Spirals studio. The women in the studio are awesome and I love dancing with Sasha. Sasha knows ballet. We are talking pas de deux. I can't wait. My new home is at <a href="http://boulderspirals.com/" target="_blank">Spirals</a>.<br />
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This has also been a great year blogging and being a part of the Studio Veena online pole dance community. You should check it out. It is an amazing place to learn about pole dance and share your experiences. <br />
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I'm also very happy to be reconnected and taking class with a good friend at Spirals. It seems that we have followed a similar path. She is a beautiful dancer/instructor and we inspire each other. She was one of the first women to welcome me into the nearly all female world of pole dance. Another lost friend from my dance past and I have reunited and are working on pole pas de deux. I hate that the stigmas associated with this beautiful dance form keep me from mentioning them by name but I want them to know how much their friendship means to me.<br />
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My final inspirational moments of 2012 came from watching the CBS News 60 Minutes coverage of the <a href="http://www.cbsnews.com/video/watch/?id=50135740n" target="_blank">New York City Ballet</a>. Two things Peter Martins said will stay with me. Peter is the guy who runs NYCB. He is Balanchine's successor. When Lesley Stahl quoted Balanchine's mantra, "Ballet is woman", one of the things Peter said was, "He (Balanchine) needed us (men)." When asked if he was hurt by the critical reviews of his collaboration with Sir Paul McCartney Peter didn't flinch. He reminded us that no one knows more about our dance than ourselves. Courage. To hell with the critics. We dance our dances. The critics don't stand in the fire and show anyone what makes THEM tick. Pole dance needs men too. The world of pole dance will get there.<br />
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The year 2012 was a year of endings, beginnings, reclamation, and rebirth. It was full of those brief moments of joy that keep dancers dancing. <br />
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The next person who says something about bringing back the sexy in pole dance gets this pic stamped on their ass. Nikoai Tsiskaridze working with Galina Ulanova.<br />
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I found this picture on Facebook and it just resonated inside of me. The caption with the picture was, "The Calm Before the Storm". If you have ever danced before an audience you know that feeling. You are alone with your thoughts, sometimes staring at your demons. Sometimes I visualize. At other times I just think, "Merde", and not in that good way that you wish another dancer" Merde" before they dance. It's that, oh shit I'm the only guy here dancing and every male significant other is going to be wondering what the hell is wrong with me.<br />
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I danced for the first time in front of an audience in May of 2009 and every studio showcase after that I told myself that next year I would pass. Every year I danced. Now that my dance has grown I've become proud of it. I understand why dancers live for that adrenaline moment you get when you count down those final seconds before you show your soul to everyone sitting in front of you.<br />
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And now I have made the decision to enter my first pole dance competition. This isn't going to be Five String Serenade by Mazzy Star in front of sixty people. It is going to be the Great Midwest Pole Dance Competition. Even if I do not place in the Over 40 Masters Division I want to dance in the showcase.<br />
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Just looking at the Rules a few nights ago almost made me hyperventilate. When I found a 45 mm chrome X-Pole I could hear Estee telling me that the pole she teaches on is the competition standard. I'm really glad I listened. I have never had a time limit on music, pole moves I had to execute, or a dress code. There were two voices in my head Sunday night (11/25). One was telling me that I am too old and too fat. The other one was telling me,<br />
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<span class="userContent">“Life should not be a journey to the grave
with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved
body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly
used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!” ― Hunter S. Thompson</span><br />
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<span class="userContent">The more I though about the way I have already lived my last fifty-five years, the more I knew I would be booking a room in Chicago in August. The way I dance is different. One teacher called it honest and mature. Estee told me weeks ago that I had to perform. I sent Estee a text message and the journey to Chicago started two days ago. November 28, 2012.</span><br />
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<span class="userContent">My music is going to have to be cut down to fit the limit. Estee and I have a rough sketch of the moves we want to choreograph. One of my ballet teachers has graciously agreed to help me work out the ballet floor work. I asked her because her adagio music is the music I picked for my dance. Divenire by the Italian composer Ludivico Einaudi is the one. In English Divenire means, To Become.</span><br />
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<b><i>People have asked me why I chose to be a dancer. I did not choose: I
was chosen to be a dancer, and, with that, you live all your life.</i> </b><b><span class="userContent">― Martha Graham</span></b><br />
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<span class="userContent"> </span> Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-43945152457033431192012-11-08T13:50:00.001-07:002012-11-09T10:06:12.054-07:00Coming Out (November Blog Hop)This month the Facebook Pole Dancers blog topic is coming out as a pole dancer. Interesting. Not only am I out to my family but I am also out on the Internet, at work and to my fellow hockey players. I'm also male. I have multiple stories.<br />
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I was out to my Facebook friends from the very beginning and started this blog not long after that. The only fallout from those choices was that my son removed me from his Facebook friends list. He basically said that his friends didn't need to see pictures of his dad on a stripper pole. There was another slightly negative reaction from an old high school classmate on FB. However, he also knew my wife from high school and after they had a few conversations he seemed good with it.<br />
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My workplace coming out was really interesting. I work in Boulder, Colorado in a weather research laboratory. My workplace is 99% liberal, tree hugging, all inclusive, warm fuzzy people with PhD's. Unless of course you are a guy who pole dances. I was in Santa Rosa, California for a meeting where a huge battle of both turf and scientific ideology was taking place. Some very high level people were saying some pretty nasty things in front of their bosses and some of the not so nice stuff was aimed at my own research. My scientific research is every bit as personal as my dance. It is a creative expression of who I am and how I think.<br />
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During one of the breaks I walked out into the parking lot and started walking off the anger and frustration with a few female co-workers who were as upset as I was with contentious situation we were experiencing. While I was looking around I noticed a parking sign in the lot that was mounted on a round pole instead of the usual square steel. I handed my cell phone to one of the women and said, "Take a picture of this for me please."<br />
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After much laughter I did a few more pole tricks and that gave me the perspective to go back to the meeting. There was one negative reaction. One of the woman asked me to mail the picture back to the lab in Boulder. The one guy she thought would find it hysterical didn't find it funny at all. IT guy. Go figure. :) One of the warm fuzzy PhD's took a short video of me doing turns on the concourse train at Denver International Airport while our group was on the way home. My boss saw it. Nope, he didn't think my little demo was funny. I gained some ground back at the baggage carousel. His sister was a ballet dancer. Win some. Lose some.<br />
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My final coming out was totally accidental. I was visiting with my parents one evening and my mom asked me if I wanted to stay for dinner. Without thinking I said, "Sorry mom. I have dance class at 6:30." I felt doom. Without blinking my mom continued stirring the spaghetti sauce and asked me what kind of dance. Never lie to moms right? They know. It doesn't matter if you are five or fifty-five. Ballet. Yeah mom, your son is a ballet dancer. My mom looked at me and said, "You are always doing something new aren't you?" The she called out to my dad and said, "Hey, your son is taking ballet lessons." My dad's reply, "I hope he can waltz better than I can." At that point we both took off to sit with my dad. My mom explained that they had taken dance classes together and my dad just could not learn to waltz. I now had confirmation that my issues with center work in ballet ARE genetic.<br />
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I figured I was on a roll and said, "Hey, while we are talking about dance I thought I'd mention that I am also learning how to pole dance." Dad never looked up. He just continued on with his crossword puzzle. Mom of course had one final question, "Isn't that about stripping?" No mom, not for me. Some do, I don't.<br />
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I know I'm pushing the norm and I'm out to everyone. I'm not young enough to dance in something tight, tiny, and shiny like the super male pole dancers. But I'm old enough to not give a damn about what other people think about my being a dancer. I would say that most people both male and female are either intrigued or at the worst neutral. The people that have problems with my being a pole dancer are equally distributed between men and women. Actually more people get weird about ballet than pole dance. Personally I think it is related to homophobia but that is just a guess.<br />
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Oh, my fellow hockey players... They didn't blink. I'm a defensemen. Defensemen are at the bottom of the hockey player hierachy. As long as our team doesn't get scored on while I am on the ice and I don't forget my turn to bring beer no one gives a shit. <br />
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manuscripts to store away, no paintings to show on walls and maybe hang
in museums, no poems to be printed and sold, nothing but that single
fleeting moment when you feel alive. ― Merce Cunningham <br />
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I am a dancer.<br />
I can be hurt.<br />
I am strong.<br />
Watch me dance.<br />
I will tell you everything you want to know about me.<br />
My movement can't stilled by a keystroke, text message or email. <br />
I touch people when I dance.<br />
I am unforgettable.<br />
Indelible.<br />
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<br />Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-69626695462146171582012-10-31T00:12:00.000-06:002012-10-31T00:12:14.091-06:00Dance Found: VideoI get a few requests to post videos of my dance on YouTube. I usually defer because of music copyright issues. At the time I posted this clip I did get a notice that BMG owned music may be in my video. Yeah. Uh-huh. Maybe, semi-sorta, kinda.<br />
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The inspiration for this dance comes from what meteorologists call turbulence. The eddies in the wind. The angst that dancers try to put into motion. Turbulence is like a dance. It lives and dies in moments. There is an eternity of eddies and an eternity of dances.<br />
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Enjoy. I'm posting the first shitty comment I get.<br />
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Music: Any Other Name by Thomas Newman Cafe del Mar Volume 8<br />
That's Estee Zakar with the video camera in her home studio.Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-41064878036787195322012-10-28T21:00:00.000-06:002012-11-01T07:42:57.171-06:00Dance FoundWhen my former dance teacher and I went our separate ways last August I had a choice to make. I could move on with my art/dance or let it die. I didn't spend a lot of time with the choice.
Long before things went sour last August I had been working with Estee Zakar once or twice a month. She is such an awesome teacher and the whole Denver area is so lucky to have her with us.<br />
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It is hard for men in pole dance. Coed is almost never an option in most pole studios. I resigned myself to working on the technical aspects of pole moves and combinations privately with Estee and concentrating on ballet. No more spring showcase. No more audience. No more taking up space and no more weaving in between the poles trying to land jumps.<br />
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For the last two months that is what I have been doing. Very structured ballet and getting used to Estee's 45 mm chrome X-Pole. (I had never been on chrome before I started working with Estee.) I love the way Estee breaks things down and she is very organized. She challenges me. I love the push. I left every lesson sweaty, bruised and happy to be on a pole once a week again. But deep down not being able to dance was eating me up inside. I love the pole tricks but if you follow my blogs you know that I have to dance. Dance lets me get things out in the open that I bottle up inside. I have been carrying a lot of hurt around the past few months.
Finally on the 20th of this month I just had to dance. I asked Estee if we could set aside five minutes at the end so that I could freestyle. It would be the first time that I danced for her. Without hesitation she said yes.
It was totally awesome. I drove home feeling like I could breathe again. Estee encouraged me to think about performing and she loved the ballet style that I use in transitions. It was kind of like that first date after my divorce. I felt like a dancer again.<br />
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On the 23rd of October Sasha Viers, the owner of Boulder Spirals pole studio in Boulder, Colorado invited me up to a Halloween pole jam scheduled for last night. I was really excited about meeting a new group of dancers and polling in a local studio. I would have just enough time to eat after dancing with Estee.<br />
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There was a video that I watched on YouTube that upset me quite a bit after following a ballet/pole friends Facebook web page Saturday morning the 27th. The dance video with me in it has since been taken down. Every time I feel like "that" dance is behind me, someone digs it up and pours acid in the wound. As I poured my second cup of coffee I knew that when I danced with Estee later it was going to be freestyle. I needed to dance. I needed to cry. I didn't care if I polished or learned a
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Estee asked me to bring a video camera to my lesson and we taped. My last dance of the day is on my Facebook page. Estee and I talked and she complimented my extension, open shoulders and lines. I had to
acknowledge my former teacher. She taught me lines and letting go of the passion that makes being a dancer special. She was the one who constantly reminded me about carriage, extension, and owning the
stage. After we danced Estee and I talked about performing again and being in a studio where I could take up space. After over two months I got my dance back.<br />
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Then I was off to Boulder Spirals. Sasha
has coed spin pole classes and another group of women who welcome men into their pole world. I'm almost certain that I am going to the big
Midwest Competition next year.<br />
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Dance found.Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-11040883096571707352012-10-12T12:43:00.000-06:002012-10-12T13:03:12.327-06:00How A Halloween Costume Party Changed My Life<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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to do a blog hop each month. This month’s topic is Halloween. So here is my
Halloween entry for the hop.</span></div>
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in a very strange way. It was my introduction to pole dance. Yes, the truth is
always stranger than fiction. My wife came home from work around the first of
October and told me that her boss was throwing a huge Halloween costume party.
Her boss had rented out the entire second floor of a strip bar in north Denver.
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food etc. but I’m a nerd and the costume thing was always a little much for me. My
wife’s boss loves to throw parties and I always have to be the dutiful husband. So
my idea for the upcoming party was to do something so goofy and deranged that I
would never be invited to another party ever. I decided to go in drag and be
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supply store, manscaping, and the massive task of finding size 12 CFM pumps I
was ready to make my debut as Ashley the Crack Whore. My wife was going to
dress up like a guy and were going to be a cross-dressing couple. But somewhere
out there while we were looking for fake boobs she found a pirate costume
complete with the leather boots.</span></div>
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wrist bands and directions to the stairway that led to the second floor. Getting
to the staircase required crossing the length of the first floor in full view
of every stage. There were four stages and every one of them had a nearly naked
woman wrapped around a dance pole . My intrepid wife took one look at all
that exposed skin and bolted for the staircase. She moved pretty damn fast in
those flat soled boots. Damn fast really does not capture it. She just disappeared.</span></div>
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give you. I was dressed in black leather pumps, long blond hair, stockings and a really
short purple mini-skirt. Nasty right? As soon as I started out across the main
floor every dancer in the club stopped dancing and started clapping and cat
calling me. Hard to be stealthy when you are a 5’ 11” tall “woman” on 4” spikes.
The club was at a standstill watching me teeter-totter my way past the dancers
and the mostly male crowd. Just when I thought the embarrassment couldn’t get
any worse the Master of Ceremonies came running across the floor and
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down said, “I will give you $25.00 bucks to get up on one of those poles and
dance." Wow! I love a challenge. I so wanted to take that guys money. But I had never seen anyone pole dance and I sure as hell wasn’t
going to sit on a stage and show off what was under my skirt. I shook my head
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dancers gave me the woo-hoo and blew kisses at me. But the experience planted a seed. I was totally bummed
that I couldn’t rock that dudes world and take his money. I told myself that
someday I would learn a few pole tricks. Then I promptly forgot about it. A few
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the local zoo and it became part of my monthly routine. The woman who did my
waxing and I become good friends. In early February of the following year
between ripping cloth strips I told her the story of my strip club
experience. She laughed and told me that she had just started beginning pole
dance classes. She added that her teacher was teaching a men’s class at her
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message, panicked and hung up the phone. Then I decided to send an email to the
studio. If it got ignored I figured that the clear message was that men don’t
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Platinum Stages brass dance pole set up in the living room of my house. This
past March marked three years as a pole dancer. My wife and her boss moved to a
new company and a new Halloween Party has been planned for this month. There
was a conspiracy and they thought I would make a great bunhead. Hair in a bun,
leotard, tutu and pointe shoes. Rather than learn how to tie the ribbons on
point shoes and bourrée en pointe, I just bought a new skirt and blouse. I’m
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Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2435165438495090725.post-31161181443434963572012-10-11T14:16:00.000-06:002012-10-11T14:29:44.749-06:00Two Things Pole Dance Classes Have That Ballet Class Needs<br />
This month marks my second year as a ballet dancer. It is no secret that I really enjoy ballet and the way it has made me a better pole dancer. I do have to say that I have a few things that ballet could learn from pole dance.<br />
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<li>FREESTYLE! All ballet dancers know the syllabus: plie, tendu, degage, frappe, ron de jamb, battement, plie-releve (till it hurts), barre stretch, center, reverence. Wouldn't it be nice to just cut loose like the Modern classes do for warmup? Freestyle is what makes pole dance awesome. I know. I know. Ballet is like Mr. Miyagi teaching Daniel Larusso karate in the movie <i>Karate Kid</i>. Mr. Miyagi makes Daniel sand the floor, and wax on... wax off... until he is too sore to move. At the end of his first "lesson" when Daniel is discouraged, Mr. Miyagi shows him all that he has learned. I get it. But when do I get to dance my version of the Nutcracker Prince to Guns and Roses?</li>
<li>NEW MUSIC! I have been listening to the same barre music for two years now in one of my classes. We finally got some new music two weeks ago. One piece. Chopin's <i>Nocturne in E flat major, Op 9 No. 2 </i> It was for barre stretch?? No and hell no! I want to do the pas from<i> In the Nigh</i><span style="font-family: sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span style="line-height: 19.200000762939453px;"><i>t</i>.</span></span></li>
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I wonder if City Ballet would feel the disturbance in the force if I just started doing 1/2 turn pirouettes during the next barre stretch? Led Zeppelin's <i>When the Levee Breaks</i> would be playing in my head.Bob Zamorahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16051790811009958287noreply@blogger.com0